Saturday, 4 March 2017

La Lanterna!



 Love, loss, politics and the Pope!

Last night I spent an enlightened evening with two amazingly compassionate, progressive thinking ladies sharing intellect with reason and individualism.  With me in the mix and all three of us hoping to share a point of view, with conviction, there was never a hint of silence.

I first met Anne Marie Coccozza when I was approached to be involved in FFAMS – Families Friends Against Murder and Suicide.  This is a registered charity based in Scotland specialising in supporting those left behind after the tragic death of a love one through murder or suicide.  This is a cause very close to me and my family.

Ann Marie is passionate about reaching out to anyone in need of relief, support or comfort and is willing to help any way possible.  This could be to listen, talk or simply to be with others in a similar situation.  The mission of FFAMS is to operate a grass roots Befrienders' service offering free, peer support and confidential advice to anyone in need of it!

If you are interested in being involved with this charity, then have a look at the website on their Facebook page to see how you could help or be supported!





Then there's Ann Marie Di Mambro, a prolific, Scottish writer and Professor at Glasgow Caledonian University whom, I don’t mind saying, I am in awe of.  Ann Marie gave up teaching to concentrate on her writing for theatre and her plays have been performed in Scotland’s theatres for many years.  On a professional level her work is integral in the delivery of both my Higher and National 5 levels  when working towards SQA examinations.   I also use them in my approach to teachings drama and production skills for ACfE.




Ann Marie writes for television and has had major input for programs such as EastEnders, River City, Casualty, Taggart, Holby City and many more.  She is very fabulous!




Over the course of the evening we discussed men, (that lasted about two minutes) politics, I didn’t express any views on this as I felt a bit lacking in the extraordinary level of knowledge these two beauties expressed.  So, I was quiet for a change.   The evening flew past but I was left with a sense of purpose and a new perspective on my recent past.

In our lives, everyone we meet and everything that happens to us is for a reason.  Although at times we feel weak and sad, any experience, good or bad make us stronger for the future.  That future is today.  The past doesn’t matter and we can’t see what’s ahead.  As George Harrison said, “Time is s very misleading thing.”  

If we absorb ourselves in the past or are always yearning and hoping for what might be then we are missing so much in the present moment.






Having said that, my mind keeps flipping back to last night and the fun we had while eating in the best Italian Restaurant in Scotland (three years in a row).  I don’t need to discuss the food because it was, without question as delicious as ever.  The staff were attentive and friendly, Megan with her understated professionalism and Maritna with her charismatic smile and charm.  

Congratulations again to Luca and Chris to all they have achieved this year.  Vote for them in The Scottish Entertainment Awards.




I live my life in a truthful way and believe if we are all honest and true to ourselves then we will be open to new ideas.  In doing this we will gain a willingness to accept people for who they are and live a healthier and happier life.

“If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things.”

So, from three Brave hearted and courageous Scottish/Italian women, thank you for a lovely evening.  We will be back but in the meantime, we will each, in our own, small way try to make a difference in someone’s life.

Ci Vediamo la prossima volta!

Mx


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